Shukr — Family Majlis

Make the family exist, then bring the household in. The weekly sitting comes after — nothing works until everyone is on the same page.

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Family Majlis

Your family

Make it once. Everyone in the house sits in the same place every Friday.

Your families

A family is private to the people in it. Nothing said in the Majlis leaves this circle — not to your friends, not to the rest of Shukr.
Family Majlis

Our memories

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The whole family

Family tree
In our duʿāʾ
Calendar
Musyawarah
Patungan
People
Invite code
KHAN-4821
For the ones not on Shukr yet. An admin still lets them in.
A family always keeps at least one admin. The last one cannot step down until someone else is promoted.

What the family said
A memory belongs to the family, not to whoever posted it. Anyone in the circle can add what they remember of the same day.
Family tree
Drag to move
In our duʿāʾ
A count, never a scoreboard. Nobody is told who sent a duʿāʾ, and nobody is told who did not.
A duʿāʾ sent hidden is blurred for everyone else. The family is only ever told how many came.
Hidden — only you will be able to read it
Family calendar
A haul comes back every year on its own. Anyone in the family can add a day; only whoever added it, or an admin, can change or remove it.
Musyawarah
You see how the family voted only after you have voted yourself. When it is decided, it lands in Friday’s plan with an owner.
Musyawarah

Where do you stand?

Talking it over

Patungan
This is a record, not a wallet. No money moves through Shukr — one person holds the pot, and everyone can see what went in and what is still short.
Patungan

Who put in

Create a family
Start a new familyName it, give it a photo — you become its first admin
Join with a codeSomeone in the house already made it
Start a new family

One photo of all of you. It can wait — the family works without it.

What the family is called
Whatever you already say out loud — “the Khans”, “home”, “Nani’s house”. Everyone you invite sees this name.
You are the…
Only so the Majlis knows whose turn is whose. It is never used to decide who may speak.
Where home is · optional
Join with a code
The code they sent you
Whoever made the family can find this on its People screen.
A code is a request, not a key. An admin of that family still has to let you in.
Family

You are the
Home
Created
People
Invite code

Invite to the family
Family on Shukr
Invite by codeFor the ones not on Shukr yet
In the family

Role
Joined

Keep a memory
From a Shukr postSomething one of you already shared — caption and date come with it
Add manuallyA photo from the camera or your library
From a Shukr post

Tap Select to keep it as a family memory — its caption and date come with it.

A day to keep
When
What happened
Occasion · optional
In the tree

Add someone to
Add to the tree
From a Shukr profileThey keep their own name and photo
Add manuallyA name is enough — babies, and the ones who passed
From a Shukr profile
Family on Shukr
Add manually
Their name
Gender
A note · optional
The ones who have passed belong on the tree too — this is where that is said, and it is what puts them within reach of the duʿāʾ list.
Add to the duʿāʾ list
From the family treeAnyone already marked as passed — the tree is where that is recorded
Add manuallySomeone not on the tree — a teacher, a neighbour, a friend
From the family tree
Marked as passed, on the tree
Someone to pray for

A face the grandchildren would not otherwise know.

Their name
Who they were to the family
When they passed · optional
Families remember the season more often than the date. Leaving it empty is fine.
Take off the list

Take them off the duʿāʾ list? The thread stays where it is — nothing anyone said is deleted, and they can be put back any time.

Add a day
What sort of day
What it is
When
Who it is about · optional
Comes back every yearA haul, a birthday, an anniversary
Remind the family
A note · optional
Who
Repeats
Reminder
Added by

Put it to the family
The question
One question, asked the way you would say it at the table.
What people need to know · optional
The choices
Two at least. “Abstain” is always allowed — nobody is forced to pick.
Decide by
Whatever is still open on Friday is read out in the Majlis.
Decide it
The outcome
Who owns it
Every decision has one owner, and it is reviewed next Friday in step 2 of the Majlis.
Withdraw it

Take it off the table? The votes and what was said go with it. If it comes up again, put it to the family again.

Open a pot
What it is for
Who it is for
Why · optional
How much is needed
£
Who holds the money
One person, named. They record what comes in, and they are the one who pays it out.
I’ve put something in
From
How much
£
A note · optional
Who holds the money
Handing the pot over is written down, so the family always knows where the money sits.

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What is this?

Family Majlis is a weekly twenty-minute family meeting — six fixed steps, rotating roles, everyone heard. This file is only its first mile: making the family exist and getting the household into it. No meeting is run here.

A family is started in one of two ways: you create it — a name, a photograph, and who you are in it — or you join one somebody already made, with the code they sent you.

Whoever creates it is the first admin. Admins invite people, edit the family and promote other admins; a family can hold as many admins as it needs, and never fewer than one.

Same kit as ../elder-life/simulation.html · roster, choice sheet, photo-and-name form, invite picker, role sheet — reused, not rebuilt

How it flows

Click any step — the phone jumps to that moment. Buttons and sheets inside the phone do the same.

    Now:

    Exploratory simulation for Family Majlis — creating the family and inviting the household — drafted against whole-family-majlis-prd.md. The six-step sitting, the running list, the named problem and the scaling question are the next tabs, not built in this file.